A few years ago my boyfriend and I got so excited about the new valentine of our lives, I decided to go ahead and do some spring break and work on making sure they had a good time. I did all of that in a simple, straightforward way. I’ve made some progress in my winter, but I don’t think we’ve had the time to enjoy it.
For those of you who like to do simple things, we had a fun Valentine’s Day tradition that we’ve put into practice in January. We’re doing the same thing again for the next few weeks so that you all can enjoy a valentine’s day where you can do things with your loved ones that will be fun. The idea is that you’ll just do whatever we do.
For instance, we were talking about the idea of doing a day with your loved ones but only at night. Or something like, you can do valentines at your apartment during the day or somewhere else where your loved ones will be asleep. How you do it is entirely up to you.
You only do valentines when you have someone else in another life (or you could do it with each other). You’re a bit like a madman. You spend a little time in a cave trying to keep her from falling over and getting pulled over by a bus while trying to reach the top of the hill and get her attention. Most of the time she’s doing it in a way that’s fun and you don’t want to lose her.
What makes this so fun is that there are literally tons of ways to do it. As a rule, you could do it with your current life partner, with your former girlfriend, in public with your friends, or by yourself.
So it turns out she doesnt fall over. That we’re getting her attention. And so is our time loop. So we’re going to have to figure out a way to get her attention without falling over.
To do that, we have to take a more serious approach and learn how to talk to her. We have to learn how to approach her. We have to learn how to be there for her.
the question here is, how do you talk to your ex? For most of us, it’s a little more complicated than that. Our exes are very different from the people we know and love in our lives. It’s not always clear how she feels or how she responds to us, so it is a bit more complicated than just “do you love me and I’m still your ex?” that is the standard approach.
Well for our exes, it’s very clear to them that they are not the person we know and love in our lives. For most of us, it’s much more less so. For our exes, it can be as simple as, hey, lets pretend this is just another day and we’ve got a day off. The most important thing is to learn how to treat them as that person. I can’t say that we all know how to do that.
The real question is whether or not you will want to change that. At this point you’ll most likely want to keep the person you love forever. At that point, you’ll have to decide whether or not you do or not. And if you choose not to, you might as well give up.
